Tomorrow I go to see a counselor, and I will discuss this with him as well. Prior to going, I meet with my wife for our weekly transition meeting.
My FIL really thinks I need to tell my W how I feel. He said I need to be prepared for an answer I don't like, but it needs to be said.
That goes contrary to what we've discussed here. She wants to file next week (she did relent to not doing so this week).
If I can wait to talk to her until the weekend, do you think I should, in an unemmotional way, tell her that I don't want to file, that I love her and that I want to work on our marriage?
I already know the answer, I think...but when is enough, enough? She is thinking that I am not pursuing her. That I am OK with this divorce. I'm not sure how to tell when the time is right.
