I like your new name! Confused me for a sec. As for the birthday, I would say invite him. Can't hurt. Big family events like that aren't too threatening IMO. Anyone else have a different opinion?
Me: 30 W: 28 T 8, M 6 S: 7-27-2007 W filed (again) 3-2011 Served 8-2011 Responded, now dark "I have decided to stick with love. Hate is too great a burden to bear" MLK