I get that about your W's reaction controlling your behavior. It is dishonest to say the least. I'm in the same boat and trying to work my way out of that hole.

That being said I still don't think your approach will have any effect other than to escalate hostility. I could be wrong.

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Me-41
W-39
M-15 yrs T-17 yrs
D-12
S-9
S-8
B 5/08
S 1/09