I hope it's going well LHSM. I feel a little similar to you on the negativity but understand why it is there. Everyone here is in alot of pain and sometimes project on to others. You need to sort of sift through everything to find the nuggets. It's also hard for people to give accurate advice sometimes I think based on a couple of paragraphs when they don't know the people involved.
It sounds (as you mentioned in my thread) that we are in somewhat similar situations. I am trying to just act like the new me now and not pressure her. It's really all I can do. I am being watched just like you....stay strong brother.
Me: 30 W: 29 D: 20 months M: 5 years T: 6.5 years ILYBNILWY and want to separate: 10/5/2009
