Last night H came home as I was finishing making dinner in kitchen. I made conscientious decision prior that I would NOT venture into the garage at all during the course of the evening, as I was sure OW's car was back. H sat down at bar and started his usual ritual of chatting with me. Last night, I changed my tone to happy with myself, looking good, smelling good, and friendly, but busy, not giving him as much eye contact and not as much enthusiasm and interest from me to his conversation. He seemed to notice and retreated to the office after a little while, but then came back a couple times to say something else and then to show me something.
Let H make his own dinner plate and I went to living room with tv to eat and H followed. Little later, H's gym friend/co-worker came over and I made the friend a dinner plate and hung out in kitchen to be more chatty and flirty-friendly with the friend. I'm taking full advantage to put my best foot forward with any friends like this, figure it can't hurt.
When H got home from gym, he came to my room and asked if I wanted to go to hot tub with him. I was wrapped up in what I was doing and he kinda startled me so I just said a quick "Yeah in a little while." before thinking of what I should have planned to say. I didn't think far enough ahead earlier in the evening to plan what to say should that scenario have come up. After I said yes though, I did think in my head that no, I wasn't going to go anyways. Night went on and I was still busy and he never came back to get me and didnt go himself and I never went back to say I wasn't going to go. Eventually just closed bedroom door and went to bed with him in living room watching tv.
Me-34 XH-33 No Kids We were M-12Y T-15Y 5/09 Same house-separate bedrooms 01/10 I filed for D / H moved out 09/16/10 Divorced
