Was hoping to get some advice on birthday party for our daughter. Do I invite him or no? Don't know what the right way for Dbusting is for this sitch since it is the first birthday without him for our children. They have the same birthday. Don't know if son is going to get anything either. He didn't give him anything for Christmas but I covered and gave him an extra gift so he wouldn't get his feelings hurt. He is my son but my H raised him. Very confused today and for the past couple of days.


M 41
H 35
D 12
S 18
Separated 11/08