as we move forward II

[BeingMe]

I think you should leave ex and son to work out their own R. Don't encourage or discourage --- just stay out of it. Because, you might be the one blamed for things you have no control over. So, don't phone him about son. If he and son want to keep in contact, they will find a way. All you can do, is monitor things in case you need to protect son in some way.

Just my opinion. I mean, really, he's scared to go to a match because he may face your family? So, he knows he did you wrong, but he's too much of a coward to face the consequences --- nice example he's giving your son on how to be a man.

I'm sorry, but your ex is one of those I really don't hold out much hope. He may D his wife, then try and come crawling back to you with some sad story. He had his fun with his wife, spending all his money that his father worked hard for. A woman he hardly knows while you and he have been together for so long, and have a child together.

I am so happy that you have found your own life --- keep it that way.