Trying to save my M. W not really trying though.

[dday101798]

No, act as if.

Act as if you could care less what she does.

Act as if you could care less that your vows are violated.

Act as if you're having a fantastic time without her.

Then, you will. Then you may just get an answer to that ultimate question.

Dating, until you know for sure what it what, could go one way or the other with a repsonse. Too early, not good for you, whome ever you date, and just piss the WAS off. Done correctly, casually and mysteriously, you'll get a pissy reaction out of WAS, but one out of jealousy.