Now that all sounds greaaaat! You do need time for you and for him to miss you! Good thinking! Time alone or with other friends keeps you healthy and happy with or without him...and keeps him on his toes....if you can enjoy yourself w/o him...and he knows it, he may work a little harder to insure that you are enjoying yourself with him. And vice versa....
++'s H cleaned the garage!! H said in a recent convo that "things are going really well" H has called me more while we are apart. He asked today how my CT scan went, yesterday he called to see when I'd be home for dinner b/c he was going to help his mom with her computer.
All great positives..cat scan did go ok, correct? Am praying for your health!
I am glad to hear you recognize the sabotage thing and are correcting it...just be cautious that it doesn't start to rear its ugly head as things get better....if and when it does, catch yourself and just remind yourself that you are loveable, you are worthwhile, you are wonderful....and you deserve to be happy. I have to do the very same thing.
Anyways, things sound pretty darned good with you other than your work sitch...sorry about that. But you keep going girl...you sound great!