That would be wayyyy too hard for me. At this point I would rather just not see him anymore. He popped in last night around 8...I had the front door open as a boy scout had stopped by selling popcorn. I was up writing a check while the boy waited on the porch, when I heard Dan's voice say, "Oh, selling popcorn, huh!?"
He just walked right through the open door and into the basement to see the kids. They were playing with their grandpa...my mom joined me and the kids for dinner to celebrate great swim lessons (Nathan swam the length of the pool without a float belt for the first time!!) and she called my dad to come by the house after work to tell the kids good job swimming.
So anyway he just walked in and my dad left 5 minutes later, I felt like he thought he should go since Dan was there. I asked Dan why he was at my house and he said he wanted to tell the kids bye before he went to Canada. I had totally forgotten he was going! When we made our Oct. calendar he said he was going one of two weeks, last week or this week. We didn't write it on the calendar since he didn't know which, so I forgot. I said, "Oh, that means you will be gone 3 out of the next 4 weeks..." He said yeah and he was po'd about it.
I decided it was good he came by b/c I wanted to talk to him about the papers but as I was getting the kids to bed he left and I didn't have a chance.
