Like Puppy said, wrap yourself around the idea that your M is over. It allows you to move forward in strength.
But Puppy is right. It ain't over.
And yes, your W may date all 1200 of those single people because right now she thinks that's what she wants. But in a lot of cases, once she gets out there dating, the shine wears off of that really quick. And if your marriage was at least fairly good prior to this, then your marriage has a chance.
Hope4us
Me - 49, W 49 S22 & S18 Dday 9/4/07 W claims NC 4/7/08 8/29/09 - Divorce Busted. Lots to work through, but we're going to make it.