Figure I might as well pitch a tent in this forum. I have a feeling I am going to be here awhile.
OM contacted me (9 mos. of no contact prior) and I have decided to let my H know (was going to protect him from it). So that is first on the agenda. Mind reading here, but he will be anxious about this and will wonder what he said (OM said he misses me, etc.), will feel more anxiety, and after I let him know OM works 3 blocks from our house, there will be more anxiety.
Since performance anxiety is a problem, I think, it will not be a fun conversation and will make our ssm work even harder. AGain, I'm guessing.
But, that is where I'm at as I start in here.
Haven't had sex with him for about 4 years (part of that time we were separated and he didn't know I had an OM)
