Seems so easy, doesn't it? Well, I have said things like that and he just never follows through all the way until I'm on him daily. He will do it if I make him and you can imagine how that makes me feel to have to make my h try to find out why he doesn't do anything about having sex with me. I guess the issues are pretty emasculating, and we both just think it is going to get better with time....never does.....we want it to just naturally happen. It's not going to happen quickly, and I have to remember that. He just started reading a book about it about a month ago. That's progress I guess. He also said he'd be open to counseling. It's the follow through and i'm just frustrated and sad...... He did say just recently that at least he likes to give me pleasure orally because from what he read, many men do not like that. I think it is the intercourse thing that freaks him out...performance anxiety he believes...I dont know......sorry, if this is TMI, I wasn't going to go on this topic on here, but I'm just so frustrated. how embarrassing.
