Is this the end of my marriage?

[P17]

P17,

Your wife's friend is loyal to your wife, and as such is not a realible source of interpretation. She;s an extension of your wife's opinions. And as such don't believe any of it. Remember, nothing of what she says and only 50% of what she does.

No, I agree. It's more game playing and they know it gets back to me so everything they say can be safely ignored or taken in the context that they are just stirring.

All of the above is worthless, useless conjecture. Who cares? It's bullsh*t.

Paying attetion to it means you are insecure.

It upset me but I quickly let it go after I put it down here. I wanted to get it off my chest. However a couple of points were valid so I admitted them to myself. I am ignoring it though.

Where does your daughter's mother play into the visitation scheme? Does she see your daughter? How often? Does your daughter now have 3 parental figures/separate households to deal with?

My D now has three parents - her mother, me, my W. My D's mother has full custody. I get her as agreed (during the week and every second weekend and half of every holidays).

My D doesn't have three separate households to deal with as I don't want her visiting my W's household.

Karate...Kickboxing, Boxing, Kung Fu....etc. There must be something out there.

I agree there will be something out there. I have no doubt. I just need to find it but I do agree it's an excellent idea! I actually quite fancy boxing or even rugby ...