I'm not saying never drive by the place, but more if it's say a grocery store and there's another one 20 minutes away, H would know why you're driving the extra miles.

Hope4us

Me - 49, W 49
S22 & S18
Dday 9/4/07
W claims NC 4/7/08
8/29/09 - Divorce Busted. Lots to work through, but we're going to make it.