If it was me, I would want to know where OM works. If you DON'T tell him and he finds out, it's just another thing getting in the way.

I would tell him you got the email, you didn't respond, don't want to ever talk to him again, in the email he told me he works 3 blocks away (or whatever) and I just wanted you to know so you don't question why I'm driving farther to a store than going to the one 3 blocks away, because I truly never want to see him again. I want YOU....NOW, ON THE KITCHEN COUNTER! Ok, just kidding about the kitchen counter thing....I think.

Don't know what to tell you about the ML all the time. If that's how your H is, then the A would really be tough for him to deal with. But maybe I'm just weird. If you want to truly ML all the time, how can you try out new positions when you can't see their face wink?

Yes to the hand holding etc.....fake it til ya make it!

Last edited by Hope4us; 10/20/09 05:57 PM.

Hope4us

Me - 49, W 49
S22 & S18
Dday 9/4/07
W claims NC 4/7/08
8/29/09 - Divorce Busted. Lots to work through, but we're going to make it.