TAL, Dr, thanks. It was a conversation that I've been dying for for a long time. And strangely (maybe not so strange), I think now that we've had THE conversation, I think a huge weight has been lifted off W's shoulders.
Since Friday night, she has been so much more at ease. I can tell it was a relief for her. And now it seems like we BOTH know we can have these conversations and neither of us will be hurt or angry about them. And that leads to more intimacy.
Pup, if you're reading, yesterday I was at W's work around lunch time taking care of some of my own business so I stopped by to see if she wanted to have lunch. She did. So while we were at lunch she said to me "I was half way to work and realized I didn't have my rings on and I was pissed". Today she sends me an IM asking if I'm going to be in the area of her work around lunch. I told her I was. She said "I can't get away for lunch, but I'd love it if you have the time to stop up when you're done". So I picked up a couple subs and took them to her office and she's got her rings on today.
Things just keep getting better. I know we have a ways to go, but I think I can finally see the light at the end of the tunnel.
Hope4us
Me - 49, W 49 S22 & S18 Dday 9/4/07 W claims NC 4/7/08 8/29/09 - Divorce Busted. Lots to work through, but we're going to make it.
