Re: the sexual stuff. Could you maybe break it down into baby steps? I'm thinking there is stuff you could do on a regular basis to be intimate with him. Figure out what it is you really need/want and work up from the easier stuff? Maybe just hand-holding, touching, or whatever. I know that I miss sex too (it's been 2 years now!), but sometimes I think even more I miss touching, hand-holding, kissing, etc. that I so took for granted...
