Do you need anyone else's opinion or permission to decide this?
No, those were rhetorical questions. I just it incredible that H and I are even having this discussion. For most marriages, f***ing other people would just be out of the realm of possibilities.
Good Question. Why are you having this discussion?
I'm guessing 99% of people on this board would also agree that screwing other people would not be acceptable.
What worries me is why you're even asking this question?
Has he brainwashed you with guilt and manipulation for so long that you don't even think you deserve that type of R?
I hope you are addressing these self-esteem issues with your C.