Well the new plan seems to be working. As an update I'm not letting her get away with maybe, I don't know or even a yup when asked a question. This will help in two ways. First her indecision will allow me more freedom to do what I want. Second she's now accountable for her decisions and actions.
Last night she fell a sleep downstairs again. I woke her up as I usually do to say goodnight. Instead of asking if she was coming to bed, I recommend she sleep on the couch tonight. This way she can get a goodnights sleep. Lately, I've been accused of waking her up in the middle of the night either by moving around too much or putting my arm around her.
Last night she tossed and turned waking me up. In the morning I asked how she slept not very well she replied. I kept waking up she said. I asked why she kept waking up if was a dream or was she ill. So I told her how she woke me up. Then she replied why she kept on waking up on her on.
Another small change. This time I wasn't accused of her bad night's sleep. Instead she was made accountable for waking me up. This way I can't be silently punished for something I didn't do. BTW - I don't care about being woken up at night. Howerver, I can be a real A$$ if you try waking me up in the moring.
