And I don't think my W's books will have time to gather dust. W already had some of the utilties turned on at her apt & gave me the phone numbers to have some of our house utilities switched over to my name. My W is leaving me. Could be a week or two from now, but she's leaving me. Ugh.
Yes, I do think that it's best that you begin to wrap yourself in the "I'm already dead" cloak that SmileysPerson talks about in his threads. Or Coach with the Stockdale Paradox. But even if she DOES move out, it doesn't mean it's over. More than half of these reconcile, and even the ones that DON'T, and end in divorce, I think the statistic is that 20% of them re-marry.
This is FAR from over, E. It's 3-0 in the third inning, yeah. But we all saw how far that got the Yankees last nite.
