I am trying to put it down to the fact she was just unhappy ... full stop. Trying not to analyse. Could be a million things from trouble in paradise to not having enough money!
BINGO. A+!
I'm glad you said that, as it ties in to what we were all trying to leave just up-thread. I think we ARE to analyze what ACTIONS our DBing efforts are yielding. We're just not to MIND-READ.