My W said she wanted a divorce just after she left - nothing mentioned since then. Not even at the 'there is no future for us' talk.
OK, sooo, Grasshopper. How do you interpret this, DBing-wise?
And yes, this WILL be on the test.
Puppy
I interpret this as more of the script. Her actions and words don't match and therefore I keep going on with what I'm doing. If she really wanted a divorce and to be with the OM so badly, she'd have got the separation agreement herself.
I keep coming back to that quote in DR - don't believe anything that they say and only 50% of what you see.
Hope that was the right answer :-)
A-.
Remember, most wayward spouses -- and nearly all wayward women -- like to have a "soft place to land." A backup plan. So just don't interpret her lack of action as a sign of genuine remorse, professed love for you (although I do think she still loves you), or anything else that would make you go "A-HA!" It could be nothing more than "plate-spinning." (You know, like that guy on the old Ed Sullivan Show or Bozo's Circus that would keep all those plates spinning on the sticks. Right now, FOR WHATEVER REASON, your wife is trying to keep both of her plates spinning (you and OM), or else she would have filed.)
