I am reveiwing my financial dec. right now and my lawyer will be calling me later today. I am starting to get that feeling in my gut again. Can anyone give me some comforting advice about this upcoming mediation? I dont want to lose it in there with lawyers watching. My wife STILL does not know that I know anything about her EA friend. She does not even know that I know he left the country. Any advice there? Should I tell her that I know what is going on?


Me 35
Wife 34
Two daughters 8 years and 3 years
Bomb 3/30/09
W filed 4/16/09
We met in'92 married in 2000
Divorce final