I just snapped and told her I don't need this crap as there's always some imbedded comment in everything you say.
Very unlike me and something I've been noticing quite a bit of lately?
I think that's a good thing. She was being nasty and rude, and you called her on it. If you start doing that to everyone, well that's not so good..I noticed just on my thread for example, you seem stronger and more confident.
I do think you need to move forward. I think your XW prob. enjoys having 2 guys in love with her. She probably will come to you in a year or 2, when she breaks up with OM, and want to reconcile, but you can't live you life in limbo waiting for something that might happen. Plus, if you get out there and GAL and date a bit, you may not be interested anyway.
