Hi folks, not much to report, son and ex doing ok, although the outings etc have pretty muched stopped, ex picks son up twice a week to take a ten minute car rided to rugby practice and back and takes him to his match on a sunday, so pretty much the same as before they werent talking, but whatever at least its contact. son came in house yesterday after seeing ex and said dad as got a rabbit, found this strange as he was allergic to animals for 42 years, but found it funnier when son said oh yes hes riding round with it in the car with him, it sits on the seat beside him. ex also giving son his cast off clothing, what is that about, is it his way of getting me to do his laundry,lol. I dont go out to chat to ex now on picking son up I keep out of the way and if ex wishes to speak to me he phones or asks me to go out to speak, not asked for me to go out and speak but finds excuses to phone me up with, I arent bothered I can live with being sociable with him, take care folks have a nice weekend xx
Mandy so things seem stable there freindly- cordial and not chaotic that is good maybe at the end of the day when it is all said and done that is the best we can hope for with our xh--cooperation and we move on to create the life we choose without them peace
married 14 years H 42 bomb 2/07 IDLYA D final 3 /09 M ow D ow
A rabbit!? Like the one in Alice in Wonderland, perhaps? I'm late, I'm late ----- yeah, waaaaay too late.
Take care.
Me:57 H:52 M:28 Got another lawyer last year and filed. D35,S/D twins28,D22 EA4/04 End? Who knows? "Life is like a mirror. Smile at it and it smiles back at you." — Peace Pilgrim
hi guys thanks for your replies. yes it is strange that ex has a rabbit living in the house with him and riding round in car with him but then i supposed he could never have pets as a young child so now is his time to have one, whatever is going to happen next only the lord knows, take care everyone
Gosh! Your X's life is better than tv. If it were only just that, 'eh!
Me:57 H:52 M:28 Got another lawyer last year and filed. D35,S/D twins28,D22 EA4/04 End? Who knows? "Life is like a mirror. Smile at it and it smiles back at you." — Peace Pilgrim
journaling, ex and wifey returned from their weeks vacation that they couldnt afford to go on, ex phoned me saturday night regards sons rugby match the following morning, the match unfortunately was to be on my home ground where my parents and family still live, I havent told my family son was playing there so not as to have any embarassment for son by them attending and carrying on with ex, anyhow, ex made it quite clear in a round about way that he didnt want to take son to this match, I told him as far as I was concerned nobody knew in my family so there wouldnt be any happenings, I asked if he thought it would be better if I went along, what I ACTUALLY meant was would it be better if I went along with him and son, he asked me to get my dad to pick me up and he would pick son up, no way no how, this is the reason I am not going to the matches because of how he wount give me a lift, then he asked if I could take son instead of him doing it. He was definately afraid to go to this match on sunday, turned out son didnt go anyway as he as gotten an headcold, but the feeling I got from the phone call was that ex was really afraid to go, he also sounded really down and sad to say he had just got back from holiday. I couldnt take son to the match as I had already made my plans and was out on the beer for the evening, had I known and next time it is over there I will take him, but not at the drop of an hat like ex expected. So on the sunday son asked me to find out the score, I had to text ex to do this as I dont have the coaches number, guess wot no reply, I think this is because I didnt jump to his demand and so he plays sillys by not replying to me. Son is ill and I told ex this, he as spoken to him once on msn and that is it, wot a tool. Also whilst ex was away his dear old aunt phoned me and during the conversation of ex having spent all his money and she doesnt think it will be long before they split, she told me this little ditty, that a year ago when it was ex's birthday his wifey booked him a weekend away, to the place he went on his stag night in Ireland, ex didnt want to go as he said he didnt like it, anyways they went and on the saturday night wifey rang dear auntie to say they were splitting up and that ex had already phoned her mum to tell her, then aunt said she heard ex shout in the background, its because she isnt fing interested now there is no fing money left, so folks that was over a year ago, wonder how much longer it can go on. I personally thought that ex would make more of an effort when I contacted him regards son, well he did the first couple of weeks but now it is back to how it was before they fell out, well I tried, pity he cant. take care folks and thanks for reading
