Thinker,

This is very good. Do this every night and share your feelings. My W and I returned from Retrovaille this past Sunday. She's been very committed to the dialogue process. In fact, my W left today's letter on the counter for me to read b/c she's out of town on business. I for one have been very surprised, but it's through this dialogue process that we can all heal..IMO.

-LFH


ME: 38
W: 35
D2.5 and S5
Married 12 years
Separated (same house, different rooms)
INILWYAM by W: 4/16/2009
The day W requested a D: 4/17/2009