This is very good. Do this every night and share your feelings. My W and I returned from Retrovaille this past Sunday. She's been very committed to the dialogue process. In fact, my W left today's letter on the counter for me to read b/c she's out of town on business. I for one have been very surprised, but it's through this dialogue process that we can all heal..IMO.
-LFH
ME: 38 W: 35 D2.5 and S5 Married 12 years Separated (same house, different rooms) INILWYAM by W: 4/16/2009 The day W requested a D: 4/17/2009