K, have you been tested? Who is to say that she didn't pick up something somewhere else during the last 2 years that he wasn't with you? Sorry to bring it up, but a woman who would do what she did could do the same to your H. Better to be careful than to be sorry later.

I understand the mental side of not feeling attractive because of the blow your H dealt to your self esteem. However, I absolutely know for a fact that you are georgeous, very thin, and incredibly intelligent. There is nothing for you to be self conscious about at all. Keep working on that. You never had this problem before right?


T19 M15 S19 XH47 M43
bomb12/4/07
PA5/07
S12/26/07
D final 11/17/08
Back together with no defined R 05/2010
confused....to say the least!!!