Trying to save my M. W not really trying though.

[etrain]

I hope you and your wife are discussing ahead of time how you're going to talk to your son, and that you both need to be there, together?

If you start a separate thread, called something like "Dropping the D/S Bomb on Kids," you'll get some good advice.

Puppy

P.S. My wife bought the same books, and visited all the websites. The books are now gathering dust in her old closet.

We are discussing it ahead of time. We want to make sure we're consistent & have our stories straight.
Maybe I will start that seperate thread.

And I don't think my W's books will have time to gather dust. W already had some of the utilties turned on at her apt & gave me the phone numbers to have some of our house utilities switched over to my name.
My W is leaving me. Could be a week or two from now, but she's leaving me.
Ugh.