Problems after the affair...Rebuilding

[dday101798]

I've been avoiding this, but can't much longer as nobody has said anything that I noticed to the effect: Don't you think your H already thinks you STILL communicate with OM? I would.

My two sents on the issue here, it seems the PA portion has ceased, but not the EA end of it. I think you're balking from telling your H because you're just not up to letting that euphoria go yet. Only when you are, you will. And then, only then the 'right thing to do' would be to tell OM goodbye [literally - no calls, texts e-mail, airplane messages, smoke signals, NOTHING], once and for all, THEN tell your H that there HAD BEEN contact, but you've told OM to go away once and for all.