SSGA,

In the next 24-48 hours, your wife is highly likely to ask you two things:

1. "What are you going to DO???" (regarding exposure)

2. "How are you?" (overall temperature check. This could either be genuine guilt and concern for you, or it could be self-serving, but they almost always ask.)

Your answers should be some version of:

1. "I have some decisions to make." or "I'm not sure yet, I have some decisions to make."

2. "Surprisingly well, thanks." or "Considering all that's happened, I'm actually OK."

You emphatically do NOT owe her ANY answers on the 1st one, btw, and if she presses you, there's nothing wrong with telling her just that. mad

Puppy