Originally Posted By: Puppy Dog Tails
Another example of "Actions, not Words" would be the threat of divorce. If a wayward/walkaway spouse keeps spouting "Divorce!", but never actually files, we are to make note of that and keep doing what we're doing, despite their threats.


My W said she wanted a divorce just after she left - nothing mentioned since then. Not even at the 'there is no future for us' talk.

I am the one moving forward with the separation agreement. She has done nothing.

I think her motives are financial though but no matter, I HAVE to move it forward to protect myself.


Me 36, W 34 | D 8 | M 3.5y
Sep 2Aug09 | Left 6Sep09 | OM in 10Oct09 | NC 17Nov09 | Gave up caring - Jan 2010

"Have integrity. Do what is right, not what is expedient."
"Delay is the antidote for anger"