SMQ, thanks for joining the thread. Glad to hear your thoughts. As you know when you are inside the forest its hard to see the trees. BUt it seems as though it is defintely more than an inappropriate relationship. Now the work begins and I have figure out what to do. Based on the above advice, I assume I just sit tight and do nothing for a few days. I have to see the W at a school sports event this afternoon. So I will limit any conversatino only to that which deals with my kids.
Then to decide if there is anything to be gained from contacting other W. I know each person has a different take on that one.
ME 41, Her 41 M 18.5 years T 19.5 years s - 12, 10 Bomb 7/12/09 Inhouse Seperation 7/13/09 - 10/1/09 She moved out 10/1/09 - present