*Am I conflating two unlike things (memories and what OM did) to feel better about not telling my H? HMM. MAYBE. I THINK I'M JUST TRYING TO MAKE SENSE AS TO WHY I SHOULD TELL HIM. WITH SO MANY OTHER THINGS I DON'T TELL HIM, WHY THIS?
My point exactly. "Oh what a tangled web we weave . . . "
I'm not buying your logic, or your ethics on this, WDID. You're basically saying "I (at least by implication) promised my husband I would be transparent with him. So I promised to tell him "A". But since I don't tell him B, C, D, E, F or G, who am I to really draw the line between "A" and "B thru G"?
So I won't tell him anything. I'm only thinking of him.
Sorry, I call bullshit. I'm not saying you don't genuinely FEEL this, I'm just saying it's not right.
