Sorry, we're closed. Under new management.

[faithisbelieving]

Thanks all. I pulled myself up by my britches. My L is on top of things and countered all of those.

I wrote a letter 2 days after to my L. I requested:
-a midweek sleepover
-instead of taking the kids to her on Sunday night, to deliver them to the bus or school on Monday AM
-whether something can be written about being able to pick up and drop off at sports events if I coach his team
-ability to be at and participate in extracurricular activiites, sports, etc

My L is on top of things. She picked up some great stuff (eg, that as I stay in the house until it's sold, I should get a credit for paying down the mortgage and increasing the equity). She reworded a lot of stuff (eg, from a income review every 2 years to a COST OF LIVING increase every 2 years...big difference in verbiage).

I'm sure my W is going to fight all of this and I can't argue with Kerry's comment about this going to trial. I don't want to, can't afford it financially but I can't afford to lose time with my kids at this age.

FIB