Originally Posted By: whatdidido


Things to think about from Puppy:

*Did I promise H transparency, and/or to let him know if OM ever re-contacted me? I WAS THE ONE THAT MADE MYSELF GIVE HIM TRANSPARENCY. THERE WAS NOTHING EVER "MADE". I KNEW I HAD TO DO THIS IN ORDER TO BE ABLE TO END IT. I MADE MYSELF. MY H DID NOT DEMAND IT. SO, I COULD PROBABLY SAFELY SAY THAT MY H MAY EXPECT THAT I WOULD SINCE I DID AT THE BEGINNING.




I'm still confused; you're dissembling. Or is it parsing? I forget.

Regardless of whether HE asked, or YOU offered, did you tell him you'd be transparent with him? Did you promise him that you'd tell him if OM contacted you?

Puppy