Originally Posted By: P17
Now I completely agree that this could be overanalysing but when does monitoring the results cross the line into becoming overanalysing.


As puppy edluded to, when you can close the door after she leaves and say to yourself, 'well, that went well and she seemed okay with me' is monitoring. Sitting here a day later and questioning everything that trasnpired, is over analyzing.

As you say, you don't want to sitting here later on down the road and still pondering those questions? Then as said, take it for what it's worth and carry on. Do not question what Friday will bring. Go forward candidly and care free. She's already left, what's the worst that can happen now?

As for all the overpowering emotions, well, let's face it, now matter what, they are there, we are human after all, but they need to be regulated and dealt with accordingly.


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OM & S: 07/08
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