Hey FIB, I know you are from NY and a pretty straight forward guy but I think you may be exagerating a tad with: "And everyone is pushing sex. Crap". I knew I would get that. Incidentally everyone here is not pushing sex. Maybe Ali and I were just comparing the way we felt when we were piecing with what we know is going on in K's case. Maybe adding our version of a little humour. FIB, I agree with most if not all of your posts in some way shape or form; in your latest one I agree with a three year affair not ending overnigth by being caught. I like the caution route as well and have suggested dating to K and taking it slow.
"but I take responsibility here to my friend to balance excessive exuberance"
I am not sure I read "excessive" exhuberance in any of the posts Usually I enjoy your attempts at balancing views...this time it may have been more than the doctor ordered.
Finally, I guess we men on this board (from the newbie to the oldest guy on here) needs to get tested because I guarantee you that 80% of us were cheated on at some point. Not sure THAT is a FACT but your post may be the kick in the you know where to get me to the Dr.'s office.
