Is this the end of my marriage?

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P,

Stop it. You're pouting, and even tho I'm a hetero guy, it just ain't attractive. You can do this, but you need to stop getting defensive. We don't even KNOW each other, so you don't need to worry about what I think of you, or the job you're doing, okay? Just make some corrections.

ARRGGHH!! Okay, I agree I was getting defensive. It's been a tough day.

As to your specific questions, maybe I'm misunderstanding the LRT, but I think you're either all-in or all-out with that. You can't have her over for "family fun day" and then NOT interact with her. You either avoid the contact altogether, or -- if you're going to do family things, esp. for your daughter (which I'm in favor of, btw), then you need to be not only civil, but courteous and somewhat engaging. Not "husband" engaging, or even "best gay male friend" engaging, but engaging.

Okay. I think I was doing more of a 180 than an LRT as the contact with my daughter was ongoing the LRT wouldn't work.

Don't send the text.

I didn't want to anyway, but done.

And I'm not buying that the groping was unintentional. C'mon.

I will be honest, some was, some wasn't. The twisted nipples on my W that my D was doing on me was intentional. The rest genuinely wasn't deliberately a grope - she had the float between her legs and I had to get in there and get it back. I knew what I was doing but it wasn't a grope - it was getting the float back. Believe it or not :-)

So, did I lose you, or are you gonna strap your 'nads back on and get back up on the DB horse today?

No they're back. I just need to keep remembering they are there! Maybe, before I speak I should be having a check that they're there just to remind myself!