[/quote] With D10 swimming, I'm going to see her more often than D7 and I don't want D7 think I'm favoring one over the other. I'm going to have to figure out a way for one-on-one time with D7.

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I completely agree with this. You need to find something that you and D7 can do together just hte two of you so you can foster a good relationship with her. Also like everyone else has been saying focus on your daughters. Do what is in their best interest because they are most important and will probably have the hardest time with this because they don't understand what is happening. All they know is they want their mom and dad. If you don't want to see W, maybe call D7 to say good night. Can you afford a dad-daughter cell with just enough minutes to call and say good night? Also that way W can call them to say good night and you don't ever have to talk unless it is about scheduling?


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