DO NOT mention it at all. That is between your D and XH no matter if he thinks you put it in her head or not.
Do not defend any action because of how you think he perceives it. It doesn’t matter because, especially with MLCer’s, they think what they want and you could show him upside down and backwards that they are wrong, and guess what, they aren’t…
You have to just be. To show, by changing your behaviors, your words, you thoughts, your attitude.
This is a really good place to start.
"Acceptance doesn't mean resignation. It means understanding that something is what it is and there's got to be a way through it."--Michael J. Fox
