Well, maybe I am not the one to give advice here, you have lasted longer than me, but my WAXW took the red-eye flight to D-Land. I started in June, and was done in August. But I fought the good fight, did what I could, but in the end I could not do anything to change or sway her, her mind was made up. I knew what I needed to do take care of my children and made sure they came first and foremost. I know that I will never see my XW in the same light, and you most likely will never see your W the same. However, don't let that get you down, there are many success stories of couples that are even better than they ever could have imagined before. Is it easy? No. Will it take a lot of work? Yes. Can it be worth the effort and work? Absolutely! I wish nothing but the best for every member on here fighting to save their marriage. As I have stated before, keep the PMA, that is the most important thing that you can do for yourself! Shock
