oh, and if it is drug tests...make sure it's a good one. my sis' husband (and I think this was in regards to MJ) got busted, when normally he will take something and they don't find out. I think they did a hair test instead.
thought this was worth posting again
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I've suggested before to love him from a distance. Let go of any dependence on him to be someone he is not. Don't be fooled by his masks - when he stops the A - you will see change. Until then, nothing changes and things only get worse.
that was good.
hey, if ever exh brings the convo up again, I think you need to figure out what is it that you need for him to receive this privilege he is wanting. Is it documentation that he has gone to AA or whatever it's called...etc. what kind of proof are you wanting, because most likely, the unsupervised visits won't last forever, so decide now what it is he needs to do, and what proof he needs to have. and that this proof he will need to show to the courts
I'm sorry this is causing so much stress. I can't even imagine. you just hang in there, you can do it. Let God hold you up. and I am so glad to hear your faith strengthening. Keep focused on that, focus on Christ and being more Christ-like as well. Remember, God has control of this sitch if you have faith in him, and he will deliver you from it. There is nothing for you to worry.. I believe it's in Jeremiah (but I really have no idea) that God says you are more important that the birds whom he feeds and he knows all of our needs. Worry will not add a single hour to your life, it will do nothing but harm.
we all love you
Me 33 H 34 S9 S3 M 6 yrs (2gether 11 yrs) EA/PA 1/2006 DB 5/2006 H wants D 6/2006 H wants ME 8/2006 H "said" PA/EA over 8/2006 H erased OW off phone! 2/2007
"It is far better 2 choose humility & change oneself, than 2 wait in vain trying 2 chang someone else."