H doesn't seem to have the flu. He often feels like he's getting sick and he probably truly feels that way, but often its his depression coming through his physical symptoms. I went to a great lecture today about the mind-body connection.

H is still in Florida. He says he feels better-just tired. No other symptoms, he is dealing with a 2 hour time change.. I've let H initiate all contact while away and he's called and texted every day. I don't think he's having much fun on this trip but I am enjoying the time away. I feel more confident that H does drop another bomb I will be OK. I hope he doesn't (drop another bomb) but I'm not afraid.


M44 H46 T21 Married 16y
D14 D12
Bomb 12/08(EA), (PA/Separation)1/09 to 5/09
Home/MC 5/09 to 12/09
Leaves 12/09 Files for Divorce
Divorce final 6/30/10.