She is recovering? Seize this opportunity to not smother but be attentive and caring. And show yourself to be really happy, not overly happy but in positive spirits and confident. NO relationship talk of course. That will blow up in your face.
I also think the Love Dare is not a very good book. I like His needs, her needs.

I just stated this to the last person that I posted too but meetup.com has some great social groups. Do a 180 and join a new group or two, surprise her. Show that you can have a life without her. That you won't pine away for her. Of course, after she is better healthwise.

M38, H37
S3, S7
Together 15 yrs
Married 8 yrs
Bomb July 2008
Inhouse separation
"I hate you" "We are over" (too many times to count)
Reconciled Sept 2009 (still worth it)