Outside activities also help you focus on your own happiness. I am in love with meetup.com (not a dating site but a social site for local groups), it was really helpful.
M38, H37 S3, S7 Together 15 yrs Married 8 yrs Bomb July 2008 Inhouse separation "I hate you" "We are over" (too many times to count) Reconciled Sept 2009 (still worth it)
