Feel like giving up

[june72]

Have you read "His needs, her needs"? Maybe it could help some. It took me about 14 months to get the marriage back on track. Was told many times that I was "hated".
If an EA is suspected than a keylogger and a little snooping may help. Certainly seems like she wants to justify her unhappiness with her marriage. Far more easier than realizing that unhappiness may come from within.
Finally, a little c'est la vie may help. I finally decided that I would live and be fine with or without my hubby. The choice is his, I'll let him know that I would like to remain married and in love, continued to DB to the best of my ability (with setbacks of course) and just rode the wave. He knew my thoughts on the issue, my action was inaction in a way. I waited it out and DBed. I was not going to let what-if's stress me out.
I also tried to be really perky and happy. I was not going to let the events bring me down. (or try to ).


Of course, no relationship talk. Never ever goes over well. Not in this period of the marraige.