Thanks Clueless for the Bday wishes. It was a great day bc I was able to spend my afternoon with my Ds and my mom. They are definitely the unconditional loving ladies in my world. A fantastic day for sure.
Gardener, I agree, I am probably putting too much emphasis on how the X acts. Although it does mean a lot to me. I need to take care of myself first and not be swayed by how she may be after today.
The X did text me after I picked up D and ask me to bring a jacket of my D’s from my house. I did not respond. I really didn’t even see the text till later and I did not return home anyway. I told her earlier I would bring my D back around 8:30ish. We got wrapped up a little earlier than anticipated and mom wanted to get home so, I made it back to X’s house by eight. She wasn’t home and the D did not really want to get out – she wanted to stay with Dad. So we rode down to the Target and browsed for a little more. Went back at 8:30 and the X was still not there. We went up rang the doorbell and no answer. Figured no one was home and maybe she would be back any minute knowing we were supposed to be there at that time. Waited for about 10 – 15 minutes no one showed up. Starting to get a little cool outside and the neighborhood is not the best. Rang the doorbell again and the X’s mom came to the door. She was in a pleasant mood and was trying to be cordial. She said my X told her it was my BDay and said happy Bday. Wow again. I just said thanks and acted nice back.
Anyway, I am excited X and her mom were able to acknowledge and say H BDay, but I am a little miffed at the X not being at home when I have to return my D. Like you said G man, don’t let them dictate my actions. They will more than likely let us down every time.
