For a clearer statement - her depression isn't about you.
I know that...and you know that...but W? W blames being "trapped" in our marriage as the source for her unhappiness.
That's the insulting part.
I get that it's crap. Sure, I could have been a better partner. I tried hard but made mistakes. I still try hard. It hurts to be told that I am the source of all that is wrong with W.
I wish she would consider the possibility that depression or MLC could be playing a role here.
Me: 35 W: 31 S:9 M: 10 years Together 13 MySitch - Ups & Downs She moved out the day before Thanksgiving 2009, over 13 months post-bomb.