Hoping WAW will someday see through the fog....

[Dia]

Hi, SSG,

Thanks for stopping by my place. I will get caught up on your sitch, so I'll be reading for a bit before I make any significant replies.

Just wanted to let you know I'm here.

First up, tho - even if your W files and moves out, this thing isn't over. Since you've read my sitch, you know that I filed, moved out and we were separated for 2 years before we reconciled.

Second up - I agree with you (as will a lot of people here) that God doesn't want your W to D or leave the family. As deeply as you know that, saying it to her will feel like pressure and control to her. If she hears that from a pastor, a friend, anyone but you, it might go over better but from you it's likely to backfire.

GIMA's a good man. He was a lifeline for me when I first got here so any friend of GIMA's is a friend of mine.

Ok - back to reading!

Dia